Showing posts with label women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women. Show all posts

Friday, October 15, 2010

Am I Missing Something?

As is my usual morning routine, I was watching CP24 and eating my bowl of Oatmeal Crisp (it's not oatmeal!) when the news scroll flips over this: "Transgender woman sues LPGA for right to play".

I did what I usually do...I Googled.  Here's the story...

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Transgender Woman Sues LPGA for Right to Play

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Lana Lawless, a transgender woman who underwent a sex change five years ago, is suing the LPGA over their refusal to allow her into the league. 
The LGPA's "female at birth," requirement violates a California civil rights law, according to Lawless. The 57-year-old retired police officer is also suing three LPGA sponsors and the Long Drivers of America, which holds the annual women's long-drive competition. 
Lawless participated and won the event in 2008 with a 254-yard drive, but the organization has since changed its rules to model the LPGA's. "I am by all respects, legally and physically female," she said in a statement Wednesday. 
"The state of California recognizes me as such, and the LPGA should not be permitted to come into California and blatantly violate my rights. I just want to have the same opportunity to play professional golf as any other woman." 
Organizations such as the International Olympic Committee, the Ladies Golf Union in Britain, the Ladies European Golf Tour and the United States Golf Association do allow transgender athletes to compete. 
On its website, USGA states, "In the event that a player has had gender reassignment surgery at any point after puberty, that player must provide certain documentation to the USGA in accordance with the procedures set forth below." 
Lawless wants the LPGA to change its policies to admit transgender players before play resumes in the state of California. "Transgender is at the forefront of civil rights," said Christopher Dolan, Lawless' attorney. "Transgender people have been pushed into the dark for too long." 
The LPGA's CVS/pharmacy Challenge began in Danville today. 
The Associated Press contributed to this report. 
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Hmmmm

So it gets me thinking...

She was born a he...and professional athletics are divided by gender.  Now as a female who was relatively athletic a hundred years ago, I have never taken offense to the division.  In my limited experience,  men are, generally speaking,  bigger, stronger and faster than women...it's only fair to the athletes to measure their physical skill and strength by gender.   

Track and Field measures the skills, strength and speed of individuals.  Just for a quick comparison, Canada's Donovan Bailey still holds the record for 50m sprint with a time of 5.56 (held since 1996...yay for Canada and our friend Donovan!)  The woman holding the record since 1995 for the same 50m sprint is Irina Privalova from Russia, and her time was 5.96.  Here's a link if you are curious http://www.trackandfieldnews.com/records/  Go ahead and do the comparison...the men are consistently faster, jump higher and further and throw things further.  If these are indeed the best of the best, then I'd say it's a reasonable source to back me up.  Right?

I know there are exceptions as always...but if we removed the gender division in physical competition, would it be fair to the women?  I don't think so.  

So if a man has surgery to become a woman, should he be able to compete against women?

I'm fairly certain its not the reproductive system that makes the difference in athletics.  In fact, I'm quite confident its the muscular system.

So she's ticked off that she can't play in the women's league.  Maybe that's because she should be competing, in all fairness, against the men.

So am I missing something?




Friday, June 11, 2010

The Downtown Beauty Shop



Ah..the beauty shop.

Well...we certainly don't call it that anymore..now it's a spa or salon...

Styles change...but women don't.  We do enjoy our time together, getting all gorgeous :)

A short time before I actually moved into the condo, I was walking past my building, showing The Short One where I'd be living...when I noticed the salon operating out of my building at street level.  Right next to Tim Hortons. 

....insert choir of angels....

La Jolie Femme. 

The first place I went to after I had officially moved in.

They do hair, manicures, pedicures, facials, massages...they do it all baby!

Here's the link...plug, plug, plug...La Jolie Femme

But it's not just WHAT they do is the ladies themselves.  They remember your name and they hug and kiss you and they absolutely dote all over you as they pamper you...and I do like to be doted upon :)  What can I say?

Last night I went in to have my hair done.  I was greeted with a big hug and warm smile, as usual.  Nina put me in a chair and I started chatting with a young girl who was sitting beside me.

And this is actually where I'm going with all of this.  Women are women are women...and The Beauty Shop doesn't change, no matter what the year or the location. 

You would expect a bunch of snootball hoity toity nose-in-air women in a downtown spa.

....but oh no...

The young girl was gorgeous..  She had moved to Canada from Polysesia about 3 years ago.  A young mother of 2 babies..her husband has a nanny come 3 days a week to give her a break and she always visits the ladies at La Jolie Femme.  She has no other friends...isn't that sad?  She had brought some Collett Cards and we all giggled as we took turns reading predictions. 

My new young Poynesian friend kissed me goodbye when she left.  How cute is that?

Another lady about my age came in .. turns out she lives in the suite directly above mine!  How about that?  She's an avid shopper with a fantastic sense of humour...There's a store she keeps going into though she vows each time she's not going back...because she can't spend less than $1000 in there. 

Good gawd

She was sporting a new pair of flip flops adorned with a massive pretty jewelled flower..and she let one of the girls try it on...  We talked ex-husbands and kids and hair as Nina applied colour to her roots.

Then she grinned her pretty grin, pointed a finger at me and told me not to leave until she was done her massage as she was led into the back.. 

This little gem of a salon is like girl heaven..we all relax, enjoy one another, laughing and giggling!  When we leave, we leave relaxed, happy, beautiful, and with new friends.

It's true...the nanny scenario and $1000 shopping sprees are signs of lifestyles beyond what most of us have, but they are just people.  Women, that love to be pampered, to laugh and have fun...and they get lonely and need time with friends that care, relate and understand, just as much as every other woman.  The local beauty shop provides just that.

Women are women are women

:)